The Insiders Guide to SDC

how to use SDC and how to complete your profile

Part 1 – your inbox, and filling in your basic profile

Get started with creating your profile 

1. What will you see in your SDC inbox ?

 

On the first day, most people will see a few messages in their inbox –

1. A welcome message from SDC

2. A message showing any new people that have joined recently that are in your area and that match your search criteria. (called ´latest search matches´ – this will automatically appear in your inbox every few days)

3. Travel plans of people who are coming to your area and their dates

4. Possibly the occasional ´hello´ message from people that have received an alert that  a new member has joined in their area.

2. Things to do to develop your profile

 

We will give you tasks to do every few days to develop your profile and make it appealing to other members. Today it is about getting a feel for the website and setting up the basics of your account.  

  1. Take a look at lots of profiles and see what you like and what you don´t like. What have people written, what type of photos are they showing, what groups are they members of, etc, etc. (Do be aware that as a trial member you can only see only the first photo of all the profiles – full members can see all the photos on profiles).
  2. If you are a single guy, look at the profiles of other single guys and see what they have written and what works.
  3. Go into settings (the cog symbol in the top right corner) and adjust all the settings to suit your needs. Look in privacy and decide if you want to let people know that you have looked at their profile. Look at notifications and see how much you want to receive in your inbox – probably say yes to most things in the beginning & then calm it down later once you see what is useful.
  4. Look at who is in your area, and also who is online – you will find that some members are much more active than others.

Information / Statistics / Likes

There is not a lot to say about this except fill in as much information as you want.  You don´t have to disclose anything in particular.  Also, there is generally a ´prefer not to say´ option on many sections and many people use it. Give details on all the usual things that people would want to know – height, weight, hair colour, build, smoker / non-smoker, etc.

Age is obviously an interesting one here and many people seem to knock off a couple of years just to appear a little younger. HOWEVER, you need to look like whatever age you put on the profile – it´s no good being 50 and putting 30 on the profile.  In the long run nobody is likely to meet you and then say ít´s ok that you lied by 20 years.  This is a hobby built on trust, openness, and honesty (both between a couple and between one couple and another).

One definite suggestion, in these days of identity theft etc, is to move your birthday by a couple of days so it´s not your real one.

Likes & fetishes

There is a big list of options about what you like so you can have good fun working out the full list (and what you are prepared to admit to ! )  Do be honest because there is not much that shocks this community,  and you may well find kindred spirits that like the same things.

One item that seems to cause quite a lot of discussion on the blogs is bi-sexuality. You will find that the majority of women on SDC have an interest in other women to a greater or lesser extent – it was something that surprised us with how common it was. The easiest path for your own relationship is to be honest. If you are a man, don’t put on the profile that your wife is bi-curious if she isn’t – even if you would like her to be! It will only create more interest than she can handle. Take baby steps and do it together.

For men, bi-sexuality is not put on a profile very often at all ! Be truthful & if you are bi-curious put it on your profile. Whilst you will find that men often write on the profile that they will not be put off if a man’s hand strays unintentionally in the dark, several couples have complained that they meet another couple where the man is  ´straight´ and then find that he is more interested than he should be with the other man.

Swing status

See the list of terms / abbreviations / acronyms here. You can identify yourselves and also what you are looking for in others. This is used in various parts of the sites to allow you to search for people that match what you are looking for. The two main descriptions  to get right are Soft Swap Couple and Full Swap Couple. Soft swap would include most activities, but not actual penetration. A full swap couple is happy to have penetrative sex with other couples (but also may not, for example, want to kiss them ! )

Description

This is where you really get to be yourself !  Be honest about what you want & what you like and write in your own style.

Look at lots of other profiles and see what interests you, how people have written things, etc. No one style works for everybody, and we look at the words in order to try and see what sort of character you might be. Personally, we like people that make an effort so a one line description is probably not going to be a good fit for us. Other people think a 10 paragraph description is just waffle & a waste of time.

Once you sign up to a full (paid) membership of SDC we are happy to have a quick look at your profile and give you some feedback from an experienced user of SDC.  So, if you would like to take advantage, send us a quick email to [email protected] with your profile name. Remember we usually only get to see your link if you alert us and are signed up as a paid member.

Location

In another of the setup screens (top tight of the screen) you can set your location. You can actually set two locations if you are based in two places. Or if you are going away on holiday and want to receive notifications about who is in your area, you can set a second location temporarily. We have also written a blog post about how to use SDC for travel.

Part 2 – coming to you in a couple of days…

we will be helping you with everything about taking and creating sexy photos.

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2 cups of coffee a month... or... unlimited sex ???

Full membership of SDC costs from £7.25 per month – about the cost of two coffees from Starbucks. Which treat would give you more pleasure ?

(If the coffee is the bigger turn on… then you may be on the wrong website!)

Trial membership leads to full membership

… but why is FULL membership so important ?

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Be ACTIVE, not passive

As a full member, you are in control and you can contact who you want and enjoy seeking out the members that interest you. Trial members cannot initiate any contact.

Be seen by ALL members

Full members can see all the other members, and all  of their photos. (Many of the full members have chosen to block trial members from seeing their profiles. Also trial members can only ever see the 1st photo of a profile)

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Gain CREDIBILITY as a full member

As a full member, you are treated as part of the community by the other full members. SDC is about trust, and full members often feel that trial members have not earned that trust yet.

Be more SUCCESSFUL

Just like in regular dating, the more brave you are the more successful you are – it helps if you make contact with others. But trial members cannot contact full members & they must wait to be contacted. (You can reply if they contact you first, but unless you look like Mr & Mrs Clooney then good luck with that one !)

FREE BONUS

“DOUBLE TIME” OFFER !

 

If you sign up  for the 20 day trial period, look out for an email offering you a “double time” bonus.

This bonus means that if you pay for one month, you will get another month of full membership absolutely free. The same goes for 3 months – buy 3 months and get 3 more months free … all the way up to 12 months ! Just click on the link and the time is doubled as soon as  your payment is made.

THIS IS A ONCE IN A LIFETIME OFFER 

FULL MEMBERSHIP PRICES FOR SDC

( INCLUDES A 20 DAY FREE TRIAL )

1 month Full Membership £17.95 ( $24.95 )
3 months Full Membership £12.32 /mth ( $16.65 ) *BESTVALUE*

“3 months ( plus your free extra 3 months) gives you enough time to really make the most of SDC and try out the swinging lifestyle. Time goes quickly and you will be learning a lot at the beginning – so the 3 month membership has a good price and is a good length of time”…. MTYT

Paid as one payment of £36.95 ( or $49.95 )

6 months Full Membership £9.49 /mth ( $13.33 )

Paid as one payment of £56.95  ( or  $79.95 )

12 months Full Membership £7.25 /mth ( $10.00 )

Paid as one payment of £86.95 (or $119.95 )

Lifetime Full Membership £199.95 ( $250 )

Pay £199.95 once ($250) & never pay a penny ever again ! 

2 cups of coffee a month... or... unlimited sex ???

Full membership of SDC costs from £7.25 per month – about the cost of two coffees from Starbucks. Which treat would give you more pleasure ?

(If the coffee is the bigger turn on… then you may be on the wrong website!)

FREE BONUS

“DOUBLE TIME” OFFER !

 

If you sign up  for the 20 day trial period, look out for an email from SDC offering you a “double time” bonus.

This bonus means that if you pay for one month, you will get another month of full membership absolutely free. The same goes for 3 months – buy 3 months and get 3 more months free … all the way up to 12 months ! Just click on the link and the time is doubled as soon as  your payment is made.

THIS IS A ONCE IN A LIFETIME OFFER – TAKE ADVANTAGE OF IT.