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A selection of some of the items that we own (or want to own !)

A selection of some of the toys that we own (or want to own !)

A selection of some of the bondage items that we own (or want to own !)

A selection of some of the basics that we own (or want to own !)

Enjoy sex more when you get the basics right !

Stay moist and clean

Pjur Back Door Relaxing Anal Glide Lubricant 100ml

£14.99

A smooth silicone lubricant which has been specially designed for enjoyable, pain-free, anal intercourse. Precious jojoba extracts have a relaxing effect and create a long-lasting silky lubricant which feels fantastic.

Sliquid Organics Natural Silk Hybrid Lubricant 125ml

£12.99

Spoil yourself with the velvet-touch sensation of Sliquid Organics Silk Lubricant. A water and silicone-based hybrid organic personal lubricant, the formula is botanically infused with natural ingredients to create a natural silky and creamy texture.

Tracey Cox Supersex Flexible Tip Anal Douche 250ml

£16.99

Safe and effective anal cleansing is yours with Tracey Cox’s anal douche. A soft, flexible tip combines with a smooth silicone bulb which holds 250ml of water for a thorough bottom clean before anal play and sex. Bottoms up to cleanliness and confidence.

Lovehoney Enjoy Water-Based Lubricant 250ml

£11.99

Whilst bigger isn’t always better (just ask our returns department) we think in this instance, it is! Boasting the same formula as our 100ml Enjoy lube, this new 250ml bottle means you can stock up for even longer lasting, long-lasting slip and slide.

Lovehoney Fresh Toy Cleaner 100ml

£4.00

Fresh toy cleaner has an advanced cleaning action to keep your sex toys squeaky clean. A hygiene essential in a travel-friendly bottle, use it to clean your toys before and after use to ensure they are in tip-top condition for your complete peace of mind.

Earthly Body Dare to be Bare Soothing Miracle Oil 30ml

£12.99

Miracle Oil is the natural answer to shaving bumps and waxing irritation. Antiseptic tea tree helps heal the skin and prevent infection, as moisturising hemp seed, jojoba and vitamin E nourish and soothe. 100% natural and vegan-friendly.

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Lovehoney Large Lace Drawstring Lingerie Gift Bag

£3.59

Don’t fall at the final hurdle when it comes to presenting your lingerie gift; instead, pop it in this pretty lace lingerie bag instead. Measuring in at 56cm long and 38cm wide, this bag is ideal for storing and presenting larger lingerie gifts.

Swan All in One Ultimate Personal Intimate Shaving Kit

£34.99

With hairstyles changing even faster than Premier League managers, it can be difficult to stay on top of the trends. Luckily, this intimate shaving kit comes with 4 different attachments as well as stencils to keep groin grooming simple.

Mates Skyn Extra Lubricated Non Latex Condoms (10 Pack)

£12.99

Enjoy enhanced stimulation during play with latex-free, extra slippery condoms. Using 40% more lubrication, they provide a softer, more natural feel with quality, strength and sensitivity of an ultra thin condom.

Durex Intimate Feel Condoms (12 Pack)

£9.99

Ultra fine, extra lubricated condoms for heightened sensitivity during love-making, Durex Intimate Feel condoms are shaped to be easier to put on and to provide a better fit and feel for you both.

Annabelle Knight OMG! Kegel Exercise Set

£24.99

Pop your pelvic-exercise cherry with this delightfully playful kegel exercise set. 3 dainty but deeply satisfying cherry-shaped kegel balls are covered in silky silicone for effortless glide and have realistic cherry stalks for easy retrieval.

Lovehoney Lockable Sex Toy Case Large

£22.99

Ideal for both holidays and home, this sturdy yet stylish and discreet case is perfect for housing large toys such as your wand vibrator and other pleasure essentials. The case comes with a padlock, so you can keep your stash of sexy secrets under wraps.

Lovehoney Magic Wand Deluxe Soft Storage Case

£9.99

The limousine of sex toy storage, we’ve created our lockable clutch case specifically for your magic wand. Boasting internal dividers and enough room for a full size wand and attachment, isn’t it time your wand travelled in style?

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Swinging jokes

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Swinging comedy 100 ways to know if you’re a swinger ! 100 ways to know if you're a swinger ! This list has been doing the rounds on the internet for ages - we saw it on SDC recently. Wish we knew who to credit for it! These little swinger tell tale stories do bring a...

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We can help make swinging work for you 

We are a group of libertines that know the modern naturist and sophisticated swinging world well. So we are here to help, from the inside out !

Whether it is via a treat to tickle your g spots, visiting a sexy club, joining a swinging community, or going on a tantalising holiday ‚Äď we are in a great position to be able to guide you in the ¬īlifestyle¬ī.

We've been there, done that - and can help you with everything from dipping your toe in the water to satisfying your fullest of fantasies.

So welcome on in !

 

Let us guide you through a world of simple pleasures and sexy times.  Create space and openness in your life, and have fun and fulfilment all along the way.

Andy & Sarah, Marc & Anna, Kris & Zoe

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Heads Up : our posts may contain affiliate links !

If you buy something through one of those links, you wont pay a penny more, but we¬īll get a small commission, which helps to keep the lights on & the lube flowing.

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