BEST Alternatives to Fabswingers.com

Fabswingers is mahooosive ! Over 200,000 people are using it daily and that dwarfs all the other alternative swinging websites in the UK. 

Unlike most “free” sites that are not really usable unless you spend some money, Fabswingers can be used properly for free (and most people are doing just that !). If you pay a small amount (from £5 for 60 days for silver membership) then you unlock a couple of useful features like being able to see who viewed your profile, or who is nearby that fits your criteria (free members just see all people nearby).You can message everybody, search for people using filters (age, etc), sent winks to say hello, etc, etc.

Fabswingers pride themselves on policing the new members to avoid fake profiles. You need to write Fabswingers on a sheet of A4 and also your username & then take a selfie showing your faces – this is sent to the Fabswingers admin team who then switch on your profile. This image is only kept internally – you do not need to have a face picture on the public part of the site. 

Yes Fab has a lot of members, but they are also very active members. The chatrooms are a real hive of activity – we just had a look and there are over 300 members on the video chats as we write this page. There is also a very active set of forums that is split into swinging advice, sexy stories, clubs, locations, and every othjer topic you can think of. The members are also very happy to send out winks, messages, friend requests, and to show their appreciation for your photos.

The general opinion seems to be YES ! Single men dominate Fabswingers and many of them are far too over-eager and behave in a way that does not help their cause. A quick look on our phone showed 63% of profiles near us are from single men & sometimes it feels even higher than that. 

However, if you are a couple looking for single guys then this is the site for you (so please put this in the ´pros´pile !) 

We mean “do the members turn up to meetings”, not “are their members reliable & in good working order” !

Sadly, many people say that the number of people who cancel at the last minute, or don´t even show up at all, is far too high. Many people are looking at alternatives to Fabswingers to try to find more reliable swingers. We have certainly found SDC members  to be far more reliable than Fabswingers members in our own personal meets.

Fabswingers is very much a UK based swingers website – you cannot specify your location abroad on your profile. In the forums people will post a message saying they are going to Cap d´Agde on 20th August and others will reply with their own dates but it is hardly a world-class international system !

You can use the “who is nearby” to see the nearest 10 people when you are away, but that´s it unless you pay for Silver or Gold.

Fabswingers communications and images tend to be fairly clear and to-the-point. Don´t come here looking for poetry and delicate prose – you will be left in no doubt if somebody likes your profile. For some members, this dirty talk is exactly what they love most, but for others it is definitely a negative.

No – the Fabswingers site is quite old fashioned (but it is also very simple & easy to navigate) and this means that it is still only available as a website. You can still access the website via a browser on your phone & it works fine, but there is no app.