Swingers Parties

From simple drinks to exotic mansion parties

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This current global pandemic is affecting all of us, and the swinging community must also behave responsibly and do all we can to stop this virus as soon as possible. This includes NO physical meetings with other swingers (obviously !).

You can still use this website to plan what you are going to do, where you are going to do it, and who you are going to do it with... WHEN the restrictions are lifted. And you can still use SDC and Fab for video chats, you can improve and update your profile & pictures, and you can also use this time to start conversations with other members so you can meet them in the future.

This is the time to stay at home and enjoy your partner, strengthen your bond with them even more, and enjoy your toys ! Once we are on the other side of this, there will be a lot of horny people ready to party & release some of that tension !

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As a swinger, there are many types of swingers parties that you can attend & these range from private meetings with one other couple up to a themed ball in a castle with hundreds of people ! So, here are the various types of swinging parties and events that we have come across.

 

Drinks or Dinner meetings

 

Testing the water

At the smaller end of the scale are the drinks or dinner meetings that couples have, to meet another swinging couple and see if there is any chemistry between the four of them. Mostly couples will meet, chat, and go their separate ways with a communication afterwards by SDC mail, or text perhaps to say whether they would like to meet again.

These little parties are usually done simply to ´test the water´ and there is no commitment for anything else. For some couples this introductory meeting is an essential part of the process and allows them to get to know the other couple in a social setting and to see if there is general compatibility on a social level (it also allows you to check if the SDC photos were taken 25 years ago or if they are vaguely accurate !)

Diving straight in

Sometimes though it moves on that evening to something more intimate.  A room may already be booked in or near the venue, or everyone goes back to one couple’s home if available. Other couples find the pre-meeting completely unnecessary to have at all, and prefer get down to action as soon as possible.

 

This highlights two of the different ways of approaching the swinging lifestyle. One group might be looking to find couples similar to themselves who will become friends with an added extra set of ´benefits´. The other group already has as many friends as they need, & they simply want to enjoy the ´benefits´ with anybody that they like the look of.

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Meet and greets

 

There are also organised meetings for lots of couples – called ´meet and greets´. Far more common in the USA than in Europe and the UK but they are gaining in popularity. Meet and Greets are particularly popular with beginner, or first time swingers, as it the old adage implies ‘safety in numbers’ applies well to this kind of party where little effort is required to join, or dip out !

An evening is arranged in a bar / club / swinger friendly venue and an invite is sent out to all swingers in the area. It is simply a social evening to chat with other like-minded people and see who you had any connection with & would like to meet again. It gives a great chance to meet 50 potentially interesting couples ( or single men if they are invited) in your area in one evening, and also lets you say hi to people you may already know.

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House parties

People will also organise small house parties where they invite around 8 to 15 couples who are picked, just like a regular dinner party, so that there is hopefully good compatibility between all the guests. Typically drinks & nibbles will be organised by the hosts and there may be swinger games planned to break the ice, but people tend to create a sexy vibe anyway – with or without encouragement from the organisers.

This type of house party is what people think of when the term ´wife swapping party´ is mentioned. Curiously, the famed keys-in-the-bowl myth where you all put your house / car keys in a bowl and you would go home with the owner of the keys you randomly picked, is not how a sex party would work at all. Swingers still have strong preferences about who they want and don´t want & they would never just leave with a random person.

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´Eyes Wide Shut´ parties

At the top of the scale, both in terms of price & also impressiveness are the one-off mansion / castle / manor house parties. This type of swingers party is mostly run by events companies and they will take over a gorgeous location and create an exotic themed venue for a luxury up-scale adult sex party. They will typically have a dress up theme e.g. circus, eyes wide shut, etc and the guests will really make an effort with the outfits. Professional performers e.g. burlesque, acrobats, singers, etc will be brought in and they are aimed very much at the higher end couples looking for a sophisticated evening with sophisticated swinger couples.

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