How to create the best online SDC swinging profile
Yes, you’re writing a dating profile !
Your words and pictures need to impress, and make a match with the swingers you want to meet. (Think adult personals, or even swinger ads.)
The words, pictures, and actions that will make your profile successful.
We realised we have so much to say here, and it has to be presented to you at the right time. So, we have devised a little programme of information to feed you what you need, in a way you can best use it to get everything you desire!
Scroll on down to find a few wise words about this, or let us guide you in a more measured way with what we all know best. We want you to benefit from our experience, and get to the good stuff in the smoothest way possible! So, here’s what we’re giving you.
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We decided to do this because every time we meet someone that isn’t on SDC, they wished they were, but they just never got around to it ! They forget, or procrastinate, then when they start to relax on holiday, they realise they’ve been missing out !
So, we’re making it easy, and it costs nothing.
We’ve written a step-by-step guide for you to go along with a 20 day free trial of SDC. On 6 timely days, you will be prompted with useful information about how to use the site at that point to get all the benefits, and crucially, what you need to do in order to get what you want. So, if you would like the benefit of our experience, all 6 of us on the team have contributed. It’s taken a while to put together and we’re now quite proud and dying to share – we’re very sure it will make a difference! I mean, what if you just get distracted again and whoosh , the trial 20 days ends and you’ve missed out again.
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Oodles of useful information to show you what to do to stand out. Crucially – how to attract those people you want to connect with, and keep away those you don’t want. We’ll help you find your way around the site and make the most of it. We’ll share the unwritten rules, and secret codes – how to read profiles and how to write yours. How to take the best pictures. Different ways to say hello, and get dates ! Finally, what happens next, and what you get and don’t get as a trial or full member.
A picture can paint 1000 words !
Whether we like it or not, swinging is an image based hobby, and there are some general rules about what images to post ! Having said that, we admit ourselves that the more mature swingers in our writing group think they understand more about a couple by reading their words, rather than the photos that they post.
(During your free SDC trial, we will send you information on how to take and choose the best pictures for your profile.)
These will get you started , and generally apply to both swinging couples and singles.
- Be honest – flattering photos are great but it’s also time for a reality check.
- Tidy up – set the scene, if you want to get to know serious swingers.
- Share the limelight – its not all about naked women´s bodies.
- Less is more – it´s not always all about big swinging tits or swinging porn pictures, holiday snaps can work too.
- How many swinger pictures should you show ? should you show faces or locations? Ok, if you are caravan swingers, or like beach swinging, then we will show you how to get a match there.
- What kind of pictures – it’s not all about naughty pictures either, if you’re looking for new best friends on SDC.
- Be selective – Do you always want to be tied up in the BDSM world? If not, then be careful with swinger niches you are portraying in your pictures. Same thing for bi-sexual oriented girl-on-girl photos, and women kissing women etc.
- Choosing your main picture – there are galleries of speed dates, travel plans, etc. so choose one that works everywhere.
- Private albums – a private album can show faces, niches, location, specific sexual interest like BDSM. Remember, full time members have privacy settings that don’t allow trial members to see their pictures.
- Your first photo – know that trial members can see your first photo (but not any other photos). As a full member, you can still stop trial members seeing any photos as far as we are aware. We can also show you ways to have private albums that are password protected.
Remember, at me time you time, we’re all in this lifestyle, writing and rooting for everyone else wanting to join.
The 5 SDC profile sections
We will send you information on how to fill in these sections. There will also be a post about privacy coming soon, showing you how to keep your information secure on SDC.
1. Information / Statistics / Likes
Sounds easy but what do people generally do about age, weight, and body type ! It’s important to be open and honest, but try to put yourself in the reader’s shoes when they get to meet you one day too ! We have a few suggestions too, to help in these days of identity theft etc.
2. Likes & fetishes
Whao – there’s a huge list of options – but what are you prepared to admit to ! How honest should you be, and how will people interpret this. Bi-sexuality is a big blog topic. For men, how common is bi-sexuality ? If you aren’t that way inclined, how would you feel is a man’s hand strays unintentionally in the dark. Is your wife is bi-curious, or is it that you would like her to be ? People think all women are bi to a certain point. So what should you put on your profile to get the right attention , depending on where you are in the scale.
3. Swing status
See the list of terms / abbreviations / acronyms here. It’s very important to get it right if you want a good match.
How would you describe yourself, and how would you write that? If you are using our free information programme to join SDC, then once you sign up to full membership we are happy to have a quick look at your profile and give you some feedback from our team of experienced users of SDC. We’ll let you know on the programme how to take advantage of that. Remember we only get to see your link if you alert us and are signed up as a paid member using our free SDC promo code.
What happens when you put in your location. Do you put in the real one? more than one ? Find out who is in your area, and see how to take advantage of dating wherever you are. What about when you are travelling, or on holiday. Check out this post about how to use SDC for travel.
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If you are new to swinging, please see our post on How To Start Swinging. There is no doubt that swinging couples are very common – a 2005 survey in the UK found that 25% of the population were either swinging in the UK or wanted to swing.
2. Set the boundaries / rules
3. Do your research
4. Start with baby steps !
5. Go to a club or party
There is no doubt that there is a role for single men to play in this world and some couples actively seek out the participation of the single guy in their playtime
Swinging is generally thought of as enjoying a sexual relationship with other people as well as with your long term partner. This is always done with the full consent and knowledge of your partner.
As a swinger, there are many types of swingers parties that you can attend and these range from private meetings with one other couple up to a themed ball in a castle with hundreds of people !
A list of swingers clubs in the UK, Europe, the USA with descriptions. All the famous clubs including Le Boudoir, Fun4Two, Les Chandelles, and the KitKat club.
So many new words and so many acronyms – we can help you to make sense of the secret language of swingers.
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A guide to using the SDC swinging website when you are travelling. Use SDC.com to post your travel plans and also to see who else will be there at the same time.
So, single men, how can you outshine the competition and get the woman of your dreams? The ladies got together to let you know !
Final words of wisdom
Before we go. If you sign up properly ( i.e. pay !) you do get more of course. We’ll explain all that at the end of the free email information programme too. Personally, we would suggest signing up for at least 3 months (about £12 a month) . It won’t break the bank and of course we know its worth it ( and so are you !)
You might be surprised at what you get offered once you’re in even as a trial member. Right now, ( at the time of writing ! ) a little birdie has told us that they got a fabulous offer of double your membership time for free when you go enter our free trial membership ! So grab the bull by the horns now. here’s the link to get you in